Wednesday, March 25, 2020

Spreading Your Eggs: Generating Multiple Financial Streams


As an entrepreneur and business owner, I find that people recognize me by my professional title. “Oh you’re that wedding planner right?”.  I reply, “Yes I am that and a few other things”. My response usually sparks the conversation of what else do I do. In this new age, millennials dibble and dabble in multiple avenues. Opposite from the Boomer and Generation X era who most likely have stuck to one profession, my generation is interested and focused on generating multiple streams of income.

Why do you ask? Well my reason is because I have more than one passion and I don’t feel I should settle on just one. Over time, I’ve added my eggs to a few different baskets. Let’s see... there’s wedding planning, event decor, photography, editing, retail fashion curation, personal styling, writing (of course) and a couple others that I haven’t revealed publicly as of yet. I find that it’s healthy to spread your wings and fly in all the directions that you are passionate about. I’ve witnessed that "one basket person" have it all and lose it all because they relied solely on that great career without ever exploring anything else they might be equally amazing at. If one egg breaks, I have comfort in knowing that I have other options.

My greatest example would be my mom. She opened a retail bridal store over 25 years ago that’s still alive and kicking while so many stores have closed around her. But it’s not only because she sells retail bridal & evening gowns. She’s also a seamstress, alteration specialist, interior designer, florist and decor expert. So if a client walks in looking for a gown but hasn’t made up her mind just yet, my mother can easily offer her other services so she wins either way. Being multitalented also gives her the option of switching her storefront to a solely online business in the future if she chooses.

Not just in business, but in life always have a back up plan for your back up plan. We as humans can do so much more than we think we’re capable of. Continue to explore, experience and execute all beneficial things that drive you. As many states are advised to be indoors during the current COVID-19 pandemic, and more people have increased time on their hands, now is the time to embark on the something that you've always wanted to try (within the confines of your home of course). There are plenty of online tutorials, classes and "how-to" videos of your preference. Hopefully once the dust settles my hope is to see a lot more entrepreneurs emerging from the ashes and ready to take on the world.

Love & Light ✨

Sunday, March 22, 2020

I Got Dolled Up & Turned Nowhere Into Somewhere


Amidst this global pandemic of COVID-19, I planned for a special day, my own. My birthday rolled around and every year I look forward to celebrating it with family & close friends. This year, I had to adjust my plans as everyone in my state has been strongly advised to remain indoors. I purchased my birthday dress, shoes & accessories weeks in advance and was looking forward to getting all dolled up. When my big day arrived, as I looked through my closet, my hands gravitated to the dress. I then made the decision to wear it anyway. I pulled the dress out, untwisted my hair, did my makeup, put on my accessories and was ready to go!

Where was I going you ask? Well there are so many places at home to choose from. I started with a birthday lunch in a fabulous super exclusive spot called The Living Room. This spot has a very modern look, a lounge area, and a flat screen TV so I can be entertained while enjoying my meal. My mother stopped by and met me over there and we had some quality time and great conversation. After my mom left, I got ready to head to the spa upstairs. Waiting for me was my personal masseuse (my husband) who already had the spa room ready for me. I changed into a white silk robe and laid back comfortably as he began my pedicure followed by a relaxing massage.

After my massage I got myself together for date night. My date brought me to the media room to watch a comedic movie that recently hit theaters. Dim lights and comfortable seating, we enjoyed the storyline and filled the room with laughter. Because this showing was exclusive, I could actually talk at the screen freely lol. Once the movie was finished, we enjoyed dinner & had cheesecake for dessert delivered by a local restaurant.

This was the 1st year in many years that I spent my birthday at home and it was one of the best birthdays I’ve had. This experience is a reminder that with any occasion, it’s not the location that makes the day special, it is your mindset, inner joy and genuine hearts around you that make it special. Even if you are completely alone during this time, if you are happy within yourself, you can create a magical experience.

As everyone is spending more time indoors, use it as an opportunity to elevate yourself & your mind.

Further your education
Start projects that you’ve always wanted to work on
Finish reading that book
Start writing that book
Take that online course
Complete your weight goal and workout in the living room
Explore your creativity
Celebrate special occasions at home

Turn your nowhere into somewhere.

I hope my experience inspires you to make the very best out of our current situation. May you all continue to be safe and please continue to follow the health guidelines to help slow down the spread of this virus.


Love & Light ✨

Enjoy a little mini recap of my birthday at home!